How we homeschool while moving to America
Please share all your travelling/moving tips!
You haven’t had a post from How We Homeschool for a couple of months. Partly this is because I haven’t felt I had anything much to tell you, in which I think I’m not alone—many of my favourite Substackers have gone very quiet recently. I miss them!
But partly it’s because for the past couple of months my family has been on the cusp of moving house—moving with a capital M. My husband has been offered a two year fellowship at the Mercatus Center in Arlington, Virginia. (You can read all about it here if you like.) So we’ve been very busy getting rid of vast quantities of stuff, storing yet more vast quantities with our very kind parents, moving out of our flat, sorting out visas, housesitting for lovely friends, and wondering how we still seem to have an enormous amount to take with us as we fly from the UK to the US.
Suffice to say, I now want to go full minimalist, and make it my business to move house as few times as possible for the rest of my life.
(Except I don’t, really. The house we’re staying in at the moment is the opposite of minimalist and I absolutely love it. Stuff means memories, especially for women like me whose memory seems to get worse and worse. I truly don’t believe that taking a photo of something precious on your phone and then chucking the precious thing out gives you the same result as just owning the item itself. But I digress.)
How have we homeschooled over the past few weeks? Barely at all! To begin with I insisted on handwriting and spelling each morning, but even that quickly became too much. I was delighted to find though that while I largely ignored the children I would sometimes find them curled up reading one of their French books (from One Third Stories, or the I Can Read French series), or a history book, or doing something else educational which I’ve now forgotten but which reassured me that their brains were not ossifying while I practised some benign neglect. And anyway it’s summer, and we will pick things up again once we’ve settled into our new home—and the Smithsonian museums will be right on our doorstep and really, what more of an education does a person need than that?
(Where will our new home be? We don’t know yet. Apparently in America it’s quick and easy to rent somewhere when you arrive. Which I mostly feel fine about but which occasionally keeps me up in the middle of the night worrying about hotel bills spiralling ever upwards while we chase apartments that someone else always gets to first. Excuse me for a moment while I breathe into this paper bag…)
Tell me everything you know about travelling and moving with children
We have never travelled abroad with the children before. They’ve never been on a plane. They have no memory of ever moving house. So I would love it if all you frequent fliers and worldschoolers and people who have to move a lot for work would tell me your best advice for how to make the next few weeks as easy as possible. No tip is too small—I can’t even work out what headphones to buy for the flight. Assume I know nothing! Hopefully this will be helpful for lots of other readers too.
And if I’ve hit the jackpot and someone reading this happens to homeschool in or near Arlington, VA, please tell me anything and everything you think I should know.
I hope that normal service here will resume once we’re settled, although from my current vantage point that seems a distant prospect! In the meantime, you might like to take a look at the series of guest posts from readers, sharing what their own homeschooling days look like. You can find them all here.
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Catherine, such exciting (and certainly nerve-wracking) news!
Flying:
We've travelled (flown) every year with our children since they were born, and the most important thing I've learned while flying is to ignore how you think other people around you are feeling. Focus on your kids, and trust that all will go well. Take along a small rotation of reading, snacks, and doodle paper.
Homeschooling while on the go:
As we've been playing the long game and two of our three kids are in university starting next month, I can confirm that there is absolutely no need to fret. Even if you were to do absolutely nothing "educational", your kids would not "fall behind". However, it can be helpful to keep a simple routine going. We usually took along a set of Right Start Math cards and would spend 20 min with speed math (addition/ multiplication etc). We did a little spelling/writing (letters /postcards) and then some reading during afternoon quiet time. This helped keep a simple rhythm going with lots of exploring/museum/cafe time in between.
For your kids the most important thing will likely be that *you* feel ok during this time of upheaval. We usually took time in the evening to process the day, talk about the challenging bits, make a plan for the next day. When my kids knew that I was fine and not too stressed out, they picked up the cue and were fine with all the continuing change as well.
All the best as you prepare for your move Catherine ! :)
We’ve frequently travelled internationally and moved several times with our kids and found that breaking long days into “phases” right at the beginning helped immensely. Flying from the US to Spain with a 2 hour drive just to get to the airport from our small town, for example, became “5 phases” (“Phase 1” is drive and get parked at the airport, “Phase 2” is get through security and find seats at the gate, etc.). When I heard my older one excitedly tap his brother on the arm as we landed on the other side of the Atlantic, “Hey J, we finished Phase 4!,” I knew we had a winning strategy ;)
This would work equally well for moving day.
Wishing you all the best in this new adventure!