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Kerri Christopher's avatar

“I especially don’t want my children growing up thinking that what mothers do with their spare time is clear up after everyone else.”

Wow. I wish every mom I know would take this to heart. There is such a difference between taking homemaking and service to others seriously, and just being the family maid at all times.

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Erin Rhodes's avatar

I think a handicraft like knitting/crocheting/sewing is a good one for occupying yourself when your children are occupied. I have learned that I can’t do any complex knitting patterns, but otherwise it’s no problem to stop and start as needed (one of the reasons these crafts were traditionally “women’s work”!)

Caveat is that my son is 20 months and very social, so I knit about one row every three days 😂 But I think with older children you could make some good progress, and maybe even listen to a podcast or audiobook while you worked.

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